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Conquering my fear of flying

Posted by: deitrippa on: February 19, 2009

I just found somewhere on the web this piece about fear of flying. I must say yhat i agree with this guy, but i also have to say: Seems Easy! But it really is?

So i want to share his wiew with you aand i’ll add my toughts about it.
He goes:
The advancements in science and industry in that last 100 years have left us humans somewhat baffled. You will often hear it said that in the last century, we as human beings have made more accomplishments than at any other time in recorded history. But did it all get a little big, a little to fast?

Well i agree with you on this subject, but, what can we do about it?  Nothing, i think.

It seems that these days people tend to be more afraid of different things and as humans; we seem a lot more “phobic” than our recent ancestors. I donít for one minute think that we have evolved into complete phobic beings, but more like the world, science and industry have all evolved and left us behind, thus creating loads of new unnatural scenarios to intimidate us.

Again , this is damn true, but i would not like to live like our ancestors lived!

I believe that one of these “unnatural scenarios” is flying. For instance it was only a couple of life times ago (if that) that the Write Brothers created their flying machine. And It wasnít until the middle of the last century (not even a lifetime ago) that we began to fly commercially and start taking our holidays abroad, however just because it may be unnatural, it doesn’t mean that we have to keep any fears of flying that we may have.

Yep, but when you start shaking and spillin cold sweat just if someone mention an airplane, there is not a lot you can do.

Hypnosis, EFT and NLP can all be used with extreme effectiveness to eliminate your fear of flying, however I use all three as to make sure it goes away and stays away! This way you arenít always sitting there just waiting for it to come back, but actually enjoying the experience that once terrified you.

Well, now your saying something. I never tought about Hypnosis to conaquer my fear of flying. Maybe it will work!

Whether it affects you in your business life or just the family holiday, a fear of flying can cause no end of upset and unhappiness, however there is now an effective and in most cases a quick solution.

Yes, my fear of flying affects my family life, not my business. It affects my family life beacuse my wife has a sister that lives in the Canary Islands. She dosen’t want to go there by ship, and i just can’t go there by airplane. Being the man i think i’ll just have to conquer MY fears, but… at the moment is a losing battle…

For years Hypnotherapy has been used by so many people worldwide to allow them to swiftly get rid of their fear of flying and allow them to feel comfortable and in fact rather enjoy the whole experience.

Well man… give an address… a clue… something to chew!….

If you are tired and always regretting not doing the things that you have always wanted to do because of a fear of flying, then why not see how Hypnotherapy and Self Hypnosis can help you further.
The process is so simple and natural that you will be amazed just how quickly you will see the benefits! Just imagine yourself laying on that beach now. A thousand mils away and not a care in the world! How fantastic would that be?

Yes. Last words could be me when i finally can go to Canaries. At the moment is a very difficult dream to realize. But now i have to start researching about Hypnosis to defeat this fear i have, so maybe thereis hope. See ya!

Savings from airline tickets

Posted by: deitrippa on: February 10, 2009

Well, i have fear and so on. But there is another problem when we talk about flying. The cost of airline tickets. Even if now it is easier to fine some dirt cheap airline tickets i think that the prices are still high and more can be made to spend less on airfares. Whon knows? maybe if the prices drop a little more, and air trip will become so affordable that even a total failure like myself will be happy to fly.

So, have you ever given up on a trip because the airline ticket was a fortune you couldn’t afford? Yes, this is a pretty common thing and it happens more than we imagine. There are people that plan the whole trip, choose the place, the hotel, buy special clothes for the destination, and when it’s time to buy the airline ticket, simply find out they cannot afford it. In order to avoid that, rather than planning everything in advance and leaving the airline tickets for last, do the opposite. Airline tickets should be at the head of the list of things to do for someone who is going to travel. It’s important to have some guidelines to buy cheaper tickets and save some money to spend on the trip. Some useful things are: – Write a small list of places you would like to go to. After that, start looking for airline companies that offer flights to those places. – When this is done, it’s time to check your budget and establish how much you are willing to spend. This is pretty helpful because it avoids frustration. It’s easier to travel if you have more than one option because you can have different prices to choose from and see which one best fits in with your own budget. – If you are used to travelling on business, you can check on discounts, either with a travel agency or with the company you are using. – Sometimes, travelling with a tourist package is cheaper than planning your trip by yourself. This happens because agencies offer packages that include airline tickets, hotels, sightseeing, visits to landmarks, car rental and some other things. Different prices – Same arrival Since there are many airline companies spread through the world, people can find several prices if they look at different airlines. The competition in this market is so tough that the difference between prices can be enormous. However, if you are used to always travelling with the same company, you probably have some sort of bonus program that offers discounts. In this case, it’s advisable for you to check the deals that may be available to the destination you’ve chosen, before going looking for tickets with other companies. Holidays and airline tickets If you have all the details of your holiday settled, buy your ticket in advance. Besides avoiding a rise in the price, you don’t run the risk of your destination’s dirt cheap airline tickets to be being fully booked.

Winning the fear of flying

Posted by: deitrippa on: February 10, 2009

This person is like me, well, he is a bit better than me because he, even if he has fear of flying, has managed to cut it someway. I want to report here what he has to say so i can give myself some more reason and hope to be a better person in the future when it comes to flying with and airplane. Ok, here he go:

Yes, i have flight fear. And I am not the only one, given taht at least one every six fellows has some trouble with the idea of taking a plane. I tried to rationalize it, to give me some good advice, but, nope. I stille have fears.

I must confess that all of my analytical and logical capacities fly right out the window whenever I think about getting on a commercial plane. The most amazing part is that I grew up flying. My father owns a small plane and we would go flying every weekend. In my preteen years I had an aborted takeoff during a commercial flight and while it didn’t scare me at all during the event, when I later found out that it had made the local news I began to see that this was perhaps a bigger deal (it really wasn’t but I was a preteen after all). I also began to recognize my own mortality and realized that I am a control freak and donít enjoy the thought of putting my life in the hands of pilots I donít know. However, Iím gradually working my way out of my fears and back into a state of mind that is not afraid. Itís taking me a lot of time, but I make progress everyday. My first technique is to get a large inside picture of a commercial plane (preferably one that Iíll be flying in soon) and make it the background image of my computer desktop. This way, every time I get on my computer Iím looking toward the front of an airplane as if I am a passenger. Initially this worked so well my pulse would race and my breathing rate went up. Iíve now conditioned myself to seeing that image so it no longer bothers me. I also like to watch internet videos of planes taking off and landing. My favorite videos are those that are taken from inside the plane, looking out the window at the wing; hearing the roar of the engines and seeing the ground fall away beneath the plane as it rises upon takeoff. Sitting in my recliner with headphones on and watching those videos enables me to participate in a takeoff without actually being on the plane. I can condition myself to the sights and sounds I would normally experience. I’ve found several helpful online courses designed to give information to fearful flyers. I use them a lot as I get closer to departure, and Iíve bought every book I can find about conquering oneís fear of flying. I take them with me, I read them often. I donít watch news clips or specials about airplane crashes. The media sensationalizes airplane crashes simply because they happen so rarely. That also means they repeat that horrific story over and over, scaring the wits out of unsuspecting people. There are dozens of helpful statistics about the safety of air travel; The National Transportation Safety Board (NTSB) says your chances of being in a fatal plane crash are anywhere from 1 in 400,000 to 1 in 10 million depending on the airline youíre flying. To someone who has a genuine fear of flying those numbers donít mean anything when youíre locked in a steel tube with no way of setting foot on the ground until AFTER you’ve gone through takeoff, landing and turbulence. I recognize that I need help and am trying to look at air travel from a logical perspective again. Each trip I hope to get a little better. If you are suffering from a similar fear, I encourage you to go through the various online resources available and seek additional professional help if your fears are strong enough and you are unable to get through them on your own. It’s ok. We can get through this and learn to enjoy (or at least tolerate) this means of travel in order to take that awesome vacation, see family or fulfill the requirements of a great job.

Brazil’s attractions

Posted by: deitrippa on: February 8, 2009

Even though Brazil covers almost half of South America a majority of its residents live on the coast. The residents of Brazil vary in ethnic orientation as well as economic status. Because of the people and the lush landscape, Brazil is a fabulous place to visit.

One of the most popular places to visit when in Brazil is Rio de Janeiro. This city is known as the marvelous city and has one of the most beautiful settings in the world. It boasts beautiful beaches and breathtaking views.

While in Rio you can view the Christ the Redeemer statue which sits on top of Corcovado.

There are also a multitude of beaches that you can visit depending on your lifestyle. Rios main beaches include Arpoador, Barra da Tijuca, Botafogo, Flamengo, Leblon, Leme, Pepino and Vidigal.

Rio is also home to some wonderful museums, including the Museu Historico Nacional. However, the Museu de Arte Moderna do Rio De Janeiro houses Brazil’s most important collection of modern art. If you are interested in learning more about Brazillian history, be sure to visit the Museu da Republica.

Another great city is Sao Paulo. It is South America’s largest city with over 17 million residents and is Brazils financial, commercial and industrial heartland. As a tourist, you will not want to miss it’s famed nightlife or grand shopping opportunities.

Salvador da Bahia is the state capital and is split into upper and lower sections. This city is perfect for a long walking excursion because most of Salvador’s museum, palaces and churches are concentrated within Cidade Alta. This is also the place to find local craftsmanship finds. Head for the Mercado Modelo to find the best in Brazil, with a focus on rich African flavors. Salvador is known for being the center of Brazilian music and other great clubs and bars featuring live music of Brazil.

If you are interested in exploring underground lakes like Lago Azul and viewing spectacular waterfalls, be sure to visit the Diamantina National Park.

Travel to Northern Brazil and you can visit the Amazon River. You can also visit one of the world’s biggest and most spectacular falls located where Paraguay, Argentia and Brazil meet. If you are more interested in seeing some exotic wildlife be sure to visit the Pantanal Wetlands. The huge area extends into Bolivia and Paraguay.

A heavenly village nestled on the coast is Jericocoara. While there you can take in awesome views of a sparkling white sand-dune desert and a gorgeous turquoise sea.

Brazil ’s capital, Brasilia, and does not have a lot to offer the tourist as the cities of Rio and Sao Paulo or the Northeast section of the country. However, there is some interesting architecture to see. A guided tour is recommended if you want to venture into the capital.

If you are lucky enough to visit Brazil anywhere from December to March you can participate in Bahia’s Carnival which is a lavish festival with memorable parties, music and great Latin American food. Carnival in Rio takes place in February/March. Local residents dress in lavish, colorful costumes and it is known as one of the biggest parties in the world to celebrate Lent.

Brazil has many other cultural things to offer than just beautiful beaches. Take a trip to Brazil to explore and learn about this rich country in South America.

A possible travel destination: Antwerp

Posted by: deitrippa on: February 8, 2009

Antwerp is the second largest city of Belgium. The capital city of the province of Antwerp, it is also the second largest harbor in Europe after Rotterdam. It is a leading commercial center famous for cutting, trading and polishing of diamonds. Since the last 15 years, Antwerp has been elevated to the status of being one of the leading cities for fashion design in Europe.

The name ‘Antwerp’ has been linked to the word “aanwerp” (alluvial mound), which was the geographical feature in the early settlement period in this place. The earliest records of fortification for this historical place take us to the seventh century BC. In the 10th century, Antwerp became a provincial border for the Roman Empire. By the 14th century, the city of Antwerp was already ranked as being the prime center in Western Europe for trading and finance, thanks to its flourishing wool market and seaport.

The city went through a low phase economically during the Reformation period and the subsequent conflict between the Catholics and the Protestants. The city rose again in the 17th century with painters like Reubens and Van Dyck becoming famous names. It was Napoleon who realized the strategic importance of Antwerp and undertook the modernization of the Antwerp port. As times passed, Antwerp went on to progress and became what it is today—the tenth largest port in the world.

Places of interest:

The Antwerp’s Grote Markt (town square) is the wonder of the 16th century architecture. The Stadhuis (town hall) is a popular Flemish Gothic structure built in the Renaissance fashion. In the middle of the town square lies a statue of the first hero of Antwerp Brabo. He was the man who had killed a giant, who according to a legend used to control river traffic and extract money from people. The roman soldier Brabo cut the giant’s hand and threw it into the Schedlt River.

Our Lady’s Cathedral is another important landmark. With its Gothic architecture, the 123 meter lofty tower is a sight to behold. The cathedral is home to two of the masterpieces of Reubens, ‘The Descent from the Cross’ and the ‘Elevation of the Cross.’

The Antwerp castle, known as Steen (stone) is called such because castles in the 13th century were built of wood. This was the first castle at that time to be built of stone.

The Meir is another tourist attraction. It is a shopping street and a busiest one at that. The Osterrieth House and the former royal residence of the Belgian kings in Antwerp are two of the important buildings in the Meir. The first stock exchange building in the world was built on Meir. It was gutted down in the middle of the nineteenth century and was reconstructed in Neo-Gothic architecture.

Things to do:

One thing every visitor can look forward to are the fascinating museums and galleries of Antwerp. The city has been organized and maintained well. A tourist finds exploring Antwerp relatively easy compared to other places because places of interest and other pleasant sights in the town are within walking distance.

Take a stroll through the paved lanes and maze like streets of Antwerp. You will be amazed to see the streets lined with royal looking mansions, ancient churches and museums. The city is a pleasant mix of the ancient and the modern with a range of boutiques, restaurants and bars springing up continually. One thing you can do while you tour the city is pay a visit to the Royal Museum of Fine Art (Koninklijk Museum voor Schone Kunsten). The museum is divided into two units-one containing the works of the Old Masters and the other for the artists belonging to the 19th century and later. Superior collection of European painting is available in the museum including the works of Rubens, Van Dyck, Hals, Van Gogh etc. Ruben’s the most famous child of Antwerp has his work displayed in the Old Lady’s Cathedral as well.

MoMu is the epicenter for Antwerp’s mushrooming design trade. If you are an aspirant designer, you can join an academy to learn the latest in fashion and style. MoMu is known the world over for hosting creative exhibitions for their work. As Antwerp is one of the leading centers of fashion, style and designer outfits, you can profit in many ways.

Since Antwerp is well known for diamonds, you can pay a visit to the city’s biggest showroom, Diamondland at Appelmansstraat to see craftsmen at work, cutting and polishing the most beautiful object known to man—exquisite diamonds. The Provinciaal Diamantmuseum which has just been shifted near Antwerp’s zoo holds fantastic exhibitions showcasing diamonds and informing people about the history and production of diamonds.

Food and Drink:

The citizens of Antwerp swear by Belgian cuisine. The cuisine is somewhat French and Flemish oriented. The hot favorite is mussels accompanied with chips and mayonnaise. Other seafood like herring are also favoured and eaten raw. Drinks consist of good quality French wine. Beer however reigns supreme as the country’s favorite drink. In fact Belgium has more than 100 brewers manufacturing more than 400 different beers.

People in Antwerp drink three kinds of beer-lager, white beer and the lambic beer. The lager beer comes as a dark double or triple beer. The white beer is self explanatory while the lambic beer is a naturally fermented strong drink having a fruity flavor. A unique type of soup filled with cream called waterzooi, non vegetarian food like chicken and fish, paling in’t groen (eels with vegetables and herbs) and vegetarian food are the other favourites. Antwerp is an inexpensive place for eating out. The food consists of customary Flemish dish with French and Mediterranean cuisine. The cafes open at around 9 am in the morning and work till late at night. T Fornuis is one of the popular restaurants in the city as it has the rich French cuisine in a traditional Flemish milieu. Another notable restaurant is La Rade – haute. Food is served in a mansion-like place, close to the river Ernest Van Dijckkaai.

Hotel and Accommodation:

Radisson SAS Park Lane Hotel
Minotel Colombus
Best Western Classic Hotel Villa Mozart
Miauw Suites
Theater Hotel
New International Youth Hotel
Hotel Scheldezicht
Tourist Hotel
Golden Tulip Hotel Carlton
Tulip Inn Hotel Astoria
Alfa Empire Hotel
Fletcher Hotel-Restaurant Antwerpen
Fletcher Hotel Keyserlei
Plaza Hotel
Hotel Eden
Alfa De Keyser
Hotel Cammerpoorte
Hotel Ibis Antwerpen Centrum
Express by Holiday Inn Antwerp City North
Hotel Florida
Hotel Residence
Docklands Hotel
Arass Suite Hotel
Campanile Antwerpen / Anvers
Hotel Industrie
Hotel Antigone
Corinthia Antwerp Hotel
Prinse
Hyllit Hotel
Hotel Antverpia HR
Crowne Plaza Antwerp
Entertainment:

The meaning of entertainment can be summed up in the fantastic night life Antwerp enjoys and revels in offering its visitors. There are a whole range of zany bars and restaurants which can give any other city in Northern Europe a run for its money. If you are in Belgium and want to get the best night life entertainment, head to Antwerp, no questions asked! The best times to enjoy nightlife are Friday or Saturday nights. The liveliest and the most fashionable city of Belgium, Antwerp has found a unique place on the style map of the world thanks to the work of some brilliant fashion designers.

Belgians love their drink and so it comes across as no surprise that this passion has translated into setting up of many bars and pubs across the city. These bars work any time of the day or night offering choicest of Belgian beer, cocktails, drinks, and wines. Plus you get to enjoy thumping or mellifluous music (according to the public demand) in these bars. Dan Engel is known as Antwerp’s most famous bar facing the Grote Markt. You can stop by the bar at any time of the day or night for a sip of refreshing beer.

Antwerp makes everyone happy, be they adults or kids. The Zoo which is close to the station is the oldest and the largest zoo in Belgium. Children are head over heels in love with the dolphinarium. Other attractions include the lions, giraffes, monkeys and the snake house. Though the zoo is old fashioned, it still remains a craze with children.

More about going to Las Vegas

Posted by: deitrippa on: September 18, 2008

Well, in the last post i talked about how i would like to go to Vegas, not to play card or what else but just to see the Cirque du Soleil perform “Love” wich is a musical with the sounds of the Beatles as the soundtrack. I just had an idea, to see on Youtube if there is some clip from this show and i founded many!

So i’m thinking more and more to go there to see this show, as a lot of people, commentingo on those videos on you tube, is saying tha the show is wonderful. I’m gonna make my mind to do this travel once and for all. I’m gonna jump on a airplane even if i’m scared as hell, and reach this town just to see this wonderful show. I’m linking this post to some video from this spectacle so you can judge by yourself how great would be if i only could get there.

So “Viva Las Vegas!” and the Cirque du Soleil too!

Here is another clip:

Where i would like to go

Posted by: deitrippa on: August 20, 2008

Just a quick post, because someone is telling me that i have to post (write) often on this blog else something bad could happen to me :-)

Since summer is ending and a lot of friend are coming back telling me where they have been i want to post here what i would like to see and where i’d like to go when at least i will be able to fly and travel.

First i’d like to see Las Vegas. This city has always fascinated me because i like to see that strange and somewhat brilliant architectures that are along the strip, to say nothing about the wonderful shows that happen there. I’d really like to see the Love show, by the Cirque du Soleil, hope one day i can get to see it!

Another town i’d like to visit is Tokyo. I love all tech stuff and to me Tokyo is some kind of a Mecca! Also i would love to see all that kids dressed in strange ways walking around, and the gogo girls too, or how they call them.

Well, i really have to go no, i just made this post to quickly point out something that i like, when something else come to my mind i will put on. Bye :-)

My friends got their baggages back

Posted by: deitrippa on: August 17, 2008

Well maybe i have been a little to hard and grumpy in my last post.

The lost baggages that my friends were searching since two days ago have been delivered yesterday.

They got a phone call from the airline company and they have delivered the baggages to their home. Also they had a 60 euros refund because one of their baggages was broken, but nothing was missing.

Waht can i say more: all’s well that ends well!

My friends lost their baggages

Posted by: deitrippa on: August 16, 2008

Ok, i’m not going to Berlin, my friend gone there with car, they enjoyed themselves and me, too, e enjoyed stay at home. No fuss, no problems, for me and for them, we have both been happy with our decisions, they understood my willing to avoid a trip that could be hard for me and i could ruin my friend’s vacation.

Yesterday happened something that makes me think that i’m not so dumb in tryiing to avoid trips by airplane. Some friends of mine came here from Spain. An easy, point to point travel… But even with this easy travel they had problem. Once they arrived here, they had to wait more than two hours to just get out of the airport. In the end it came out that alla of their baggages could not be found anywhere. So they had to stay at the airport even more because they had to go to the lost and found office of the airline company they travelled with (which i will not mention for god’s sake) to fill some paper hoping to found their baggage. The personnel there has been very rude, not trying in anyway to help my friends and even not giving them the survival kit they deserved. They said that the kits where over due to the high number of lost baggages!

So once they come back, without any dress and so on… they checked the worldtrace site to see if their baggages were on the road to be found somewhere, only to have a criptic message that was not an answer at all. So they decided to phone the company. The first calla was answered by a guy that told them that he was not responsible for their baggages and he gave them anothere phone number. Well, they are still trying to have a reply from that number, the telephone rings but no one has answered yet.

My friends are very unhappy with this situation that if will continue sure will spoil their holyday. They already started to buy back what they already owned.

I will post updates on this adventure, but let me say that this give me one more reason to stay away from travels, expecially air travels.

To Berlin By Car Or By Airline

Posted by: deitrippa on: July 8, 2008

Well this friend of mine has come to me today saying: do we want to go to Berlin for this holidays season?

I said well let me think about it but I already know that I won’t be able to go with them (he and his wife) since either I would not stand a long travel by car or by airplane. Then I thought about this blog and I said to myself that I could put in here my thoughts about this travel, just like if I was about to do it for real. So first off le t’s say we go to Berlin by car, that will be driven by my friend. He has and Audi A4 station wagon, which is a good car, maybe not too comfortable for the one who his sit in his back, which is strange given that this car is a station wagon, very long, but trust me, I have been on this car many times and while the front seats are very comfortable with a lot of leg room, the back seaters would not be too pleased, I am not telling that you cannot perform a long trip with this car but I just want to say that once that you see this car from the outside you will be surprised with the not so cavernous interior.

Anyway the Audi A4 has a great engine and is very stable on the road and this will surely make a pleasant travel .

We should start our trip early, very early in the morning, so we should avoid the traffic that is very heavy on the motorway, at least for a good fraction of time. Starting our trip at 6 am should let us arrive to Berlin by 7 pm, just in time for dinner.

My friend told me that he would drive all the time not giving the steer to me (thanks!) nor to his wife (this case I don’t know if she would be so pleased) since he really like to drive his car and this kind of trip is like a breeze to him. I just cannot understand him, for me a travel along the motorway is a very stressing experience. I just cannot stop thinking about all the other cars and the strange things that sometimes people do when driving. Also I cannot stand the motorway when is full of trucks. Anyway nobody asked me to drive, but, I don’t know, I fear I won’t be able to do this trip even as a passenger. But imagine that I’ll make this travel, once we arrive to Berlin, what should we do?

But first let me tell what I think I should do if we’d choose to go to Berlin by air. First off, even if we choose a air travel, a little ride with the car cannot be avoided because in our town there is no airport. So we have to ride to a bigger town to catch this airplane. We then will need to wake up very early in the morning because the airline company needs you to be at their hub at least two hour before the take-off and you have to have bought your airline tickets in time or else forget your travel… why can’t the things be simpler!

Then I think I will have some problems on the airplane. I have never flied because I fear that a plane is travelling so far from the ground and that you have to be in a place that is tightly closed but maybe I will overcome this thing and I’ll be able to fly, maybe to Berlin, maybe to some other place.

Well I feel a little tired now and I think I will stop my ramblings for now. Next I want to put what should I do if I can get to Berlin, be it by car or by airplane.